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Ammu Jijoe's avatar

Wow! Abhishek

I love a man who isn’t afraid to follow his wife’s lead & trust it & isn’t embarrassed to proclaim it out to the universe… Most men do adopt the mature ideas of women ( mostly wives) but somehow take credit for those ideas. And I have watched these women very silently let them ,knowing these big babies can’t handle giving the credit where it’s due. But I am so glad for people like you. My dad, brother, husband and sons ( I have 3 by the way) try too. It’s hard to recognise the subtle disguises of patriarchy, but they make an effort.

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Abhishek Singh's avatar

Thank you for giving it a read!

I think we somehow find our way. And your kids, husband and everyone else around is pretty lucky to have you to learn a few tricks from. :)

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Ammu Jijoe's avatar

I try and raise my boys with this awareness. I hope they someday will do their part & be Renaissance men!

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Abhishek Singh's avatar

I'm pretty sure that they will. Also, because you will be there to guide them through.

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Kshitij's avatar

Not me wanting to have a wife and to follow her lead after reading this article 😋

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Abhishek Singh's avatar

You don't want one or just the typo which is making me believe what I read. 😂

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Kshitij's avatar

No, of course I want one! Using slack simultaneously was the reason for that typo

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Abhishek Singh's avatar

haha and using slack will continuously will ensure that you don't fine one. Have some experience there.

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Kshitij's avatar

Ahhhh 🫠

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Ameliorating A's avatar

This was such an awesome read!

Bhabhi is so cool as always 😎

But you rock too really.

You know this somehow reminds me of my mom and dad.

It's like my mom would depend on what my dad has to say, but eventually, even if it's dad's decision, she's the one mostly all the times who's behind it.

It's not easy too especially when society keeps Shaming men who listens to his wife or partner. I mean why ? Doesn't partners mean both have the say...if it's one sided then it's wrong no matter who's dominating. But people don't get it easily..

But this was such a nice read. And yeah please do publish that book for her. It'd be so so awesome.

Proud of you Captain 😎

This was great!!!

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Abhishek Singh's avatar

Thanks as always as Aparna! :)

I think we are slowly learning to cancel out the noise around and trust what our partner has to say.

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Ameliorating A's avatar

It's my pleasure:))

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Naira lune ✨'s avatar

This was such an heartwarming read . Was just about to post a note that — man sucks ,but I guess now i drop the thought. Life for everyone would have been so much better if patriarchy wasn't there - for both man and woman — in short HUMAN ! I really want to meet your wife atleast once after reading this beautiful peice . How blessed both of you are to have each other by the side . Touchwood thu — thu . 🤧💌✨

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Abhishek Singh's avatar

Well men might suck but they do change. Generally when it’s too late :P

I’m glad this post could let you drop the idea of the note. And soon enough we might meet too.

Thanks a lot Naira for giving it a read. :)

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Aliza's avatar

Mard sirf apni pasandida aurat ki hi baat sunta hai— aur acha lagta hai!! Really love when a person appreciate and love their partner.

Such a wholesome read :)

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Abhishek Singh's avatar

Thanks a lot Aliza! And I couldn't agree more :)

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Abhishek Singh's avatar

praising and acknowledging the contribution of women goes a long way. I've been more vocal about the stuff she helps me with and it makes me feel happy too.

really nice read and I love teri bhabhi ki suggest ki huyi moonchhein. Keep it up xP

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Abhishek Singh's avatar

and yet I think we are the ones who benefit out of it more than we think.

haha, thanks bhai!

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